My name is John, and I am here to talk about one of my favorite topics: making your girlfriend feel special. Now, I know what you’re thinking. “John, isn’t that a little bit sexist? Why should only girlfriends get special treatment? What about the boyfriends?” Well, dear reader, I have an answer for you. It’s simple – because we can! That’s right, we men can show our love in many different ways, and making our girlfriends feel special is just one way to do it.
If you’ve wondered how to make your girlfriend feel special, look no further! Here are some surefire tips I’ve learned over a long and storied career of making my girlfriends feel like the most special ladies in the world. This is key to becoming a better boyfriend and keeping your girlfriend happy, so listen up!
How To Make Your Girlfriend Feel Special Over Text
Many people think that the only way to make their girlfriends feel special is to spend a lot of money on them or take them on luxurious trips. However, you can do many small things over text that will make your girlfriend feel just as special, if not more so.

Here are some tips on how to make your girlfriend feel special over text:
- Send her long, thoughtful texts throughout the day. Thoughtful texts will show her that you are thinking about her even when you are apart.
- Send her photos of things that remind you of her. This could be a photo of a sunset, a cute animal, or anything else that makes you think of her.
- Tell her how much she means to you and how grateful you are to have her in your life. These sweet words will brighten up her day and make her feel loved.
- Ask her about her day and really listen to what she has to say. This will show her that you care about her and want to know what is going on in her life.
- Send her random compliments throughout the day. This will make her feel good about herself and appreciated by you.
By following these tips, you can be sure your girlfriend will feel special and loved even when you cannot be with her in person.
How To Make Your Girlfriend Feel Special in a Long-Distance Relationship
There are a few things you can do to make your girlfriend feel special in a long-distance relationship:
- Send her handwritten letters and cards. A personal touch goes a long way, especially when you’re far away from each other.
- Plan fun dates and activities you can do together, even if you’re in different locations. Whether it’s watching a movie at the same time or going for a walk together virtually, taking the time to do things together will make her feel closer to you.
- Send her thoughtful gifts that show you’re thinking of her. It doesn’t have to be anything expensive, but something that shows you know what she likes and what would make her smile will go a long way.
- Make sure to stay in regular contact with her, whether it’s through text, phone calls, video calls, or social media. Letting her know she’s on your mind will make her feel special and loved.
- Tell her how much you appreciate her and how lucky you feel to be in a relationship with her. A simple declaration of love can go a long way in making your girlfriend feel special, no matter the distance between you.
If you’ve ever been in a long-distance relationship, you know how difficult it can be to feel close to your partner. However, by following these tips, you can ensure your girlfriend feels special and loved even when you’re miles apart.
How To Make a Woman Feel Loved and Secure

There are countless ways to make the woman you love feel special. Here are just a few thoughtful things you can do to make her feel loved and secure in your relationship:
- Don’t take her for granted. Let her know how much you appreciate her with words and actions.
- Don’t try to change her. Accept her as she is and help her grow as a person.
- Be there for her when she needs you. Be a shoulder to cry on, a sounding board, and a source of support.
- Make time for her. In our busy lives, it’s easy to let the woman we love fall by the wayside. Make sure you schedule time in your week just for her — whether it’s going on a date, taking a walk together, or just cuddling on the couch and watching a movie.
- Communicate with her openly and honestly. Don’t keep secrets from her or try to manipulate her with your words. Instead, build trust by being open and transparent in your communication with one another.
How To Make Her Feel Special Without Money
Some people think the only way to make their girlfriend feel special is to spend money on them. However, this isn’t necessarily true. There are plenty of ways to make your girlfriend feel special without spending much money. Here are some ideas:
Tell her how much you appreciate her. A simple “I love you” or “Thank you for being in my life” can go a long way.
- Please make an effort to spend quality time with her. This can be anything from walking together to cuddling on the couch and watching a movie.
- Write her a heartfelt letter expressing your love for her.
- Do something special for her, like cooking her dinner or giving her a massage.
- Surprise her with tickets to a show or an unexpected weekend getaway.
I’ve found that the little things mean the most in relationships. If you take the time to do thoughtful gestures for your girlfriend, she will feel loved and appreciated, even if you’re on a tight budget.
Dates To Make Her Feel Special

These are a few dates I’ve been on that always make my girlfriend feel special, even when we’re on a tight budget:
- Arrange a special date night: surprises her with tickets to her favorite play or show, reservations at her favorite restaurant, or a weekend getaway at a romantic bed and breakfast.
- Make a homemade card or gift: celebrates your anniversary or another special day; let her know how much she means to you by taking the time to make her a card or gift. But feel free to cheap out a little and just buy her a card, as long as it’s heartfelt!
- Put together a photo album or memory book: pictures of the two of you together, along with captions and handwritten notes recalling some of your favorite memories.
Whatever you do, the key is to make sure your girlfriend feels special, loved, and appreciated. Sometimes, it’s the thought that counts more than anything else.
Closing Thoughts
Making your girlfriend feel special can be easy if you put a little thought into it. Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or see each other every day, there are plenty of ways to make her feel loved and appreciated. Just remember to be thoughtful, communicative, and considerate; she’ll know how much you care about her.
Love is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you take the time to make your girlfriend feel loved, she’ll return the favor tenfold.