Especially if you’ve been with your partner for a while, things can get a bit stagnant in the bedroom. Between work, friends, and family commitments, it can get tough to even find time for romance. When you finally do, having same-old sex doesn’t exactly inspire you to pencil in the next intimate escapade anytime soon.
If it’s time to spice things up, you might not be sure where to begin. Should you try costumes? Edible massage creams? A sex sling?
Why not begin with a few fun toys that vibrate? Here are a couple of exciting ideas.
Dildos add an element of naughtiness to the bedroom, while vibrators are stimulating and truly take sex to the next level. A vibrating dildo combines the two toys to really amp up the fun. Unlike a standard vibrator, you can find dildos with realistic details (a veiny dick with huge balls, anyone?). Some models even have suction cups to enable a bit of solo fun…or even fun while a partner looks on! A vibrating dildo with a remote control allows you or your lover to easily adjust the level of vibration in the midst of the action.
Vibrating Love Eggs
For fun that comes in a more compact form, vibrating love eggs are an intense way to play. Also known as bullet egg vibrators, these are small devices meant to stimulate any orifice of your choice. Because they’re designed with a string attached, they’re safe and easy to remove. These rechargeable vibrators have wireless remote controls that allow you to turn them on and off or even adjust the intensity while the egg is inserted. They’re convenient, waterproof, and incredibly quiet – the perfect toy to change up your routine in the sheets.
Secrets to a Super-Hot Love Life
Simply buying sex toys isn’t enough to transform your sex life. You also have to feel comfortable using them. Here are a few more tips to help.
As much as you might like them to be, your partner isn’t psychic. You’ve got to talk to them and tell them what you do and don’t like. If it feels too intense or embarrassing to have this talk while you’re in the middle of the act, have an honest discussion some other time.
Set the Mood
Schedule time for intimacy and set things up to be truly romantic. Tune out all the distractions. Light some candles, take a hot bath, and turn on sexy music to make a truly sultry atmosphere.
Good sex isn’t all about passionate lovemaking; sometimes, it’s about letting loose and laughing. As you explore your new toys and each other, feel free to get silly and have fun.