Around the planet many people are enjoying no strings attached sex. For every person that is enjoying such a relationship though, there are people trying to find one. These people use online dating sites to find No Strings Attached relationships, but for many of them they are going about it wrong.
To help you we are going to go over some important tips on finding NSA relationships on dating sites.
Try Sites Specifically For NSA Dating
There are a lot of different dating websites on the internet. There are many general dating sites, these are the ones that you hear about on TV or in advertisements. That doesn’t mean they are the only options out there. You can find NSA Sites on the internet, ones specifically tailored toward no strings attached dating.
Dating can be incredibly hard, when you are looking for just NSA relationships it can be even harder. We tend to want to focus on the sex that is a major part of a no strings attached relationship. Take that away from any messages you send, especially first messages.
Despite the fact that NSA dating sites are about finding a sexual partner, the relationships you have with NSA partners need to be based on some sort of attraction. That means exchanging a couple messages without the mention of sex. Carefully bring the topic up when you do broach it and always ease into it.
Be honest too. Users will not want to start a NSA relationship with someone who isn’t honest about what they are looking for or what they need. It comes off as a bad start and it is usually pretty easy to see when someone lied at some point.
Still Create A Good Profile
A lot of people assume that since they are looking for a relationship without any strings or commitment, you don’t need to do much on a dating website. Even NSA sites have profiles that you need to fill out. These profiles allow people to find a match that is for them.
Remember we mentioned that most NSA relationships still have to have an attraction behind them? A profile helps to generate that attraction and mutual ground.
Don’t Message More Than Once
Everyone hates waiting. When we send our first message we will often have to wait, sometimes for days for a response. Waiting can be hard, but no matter how long it takes for someone to message you back, you should always message them only once. Multiple messages can come off as creepy.
Spend Time Creating A Good Message
Messages have to be able to catch someone’s interest in order to get them to message back. Spend at least a couple minutes crafting each first message that you send. A message with a simple hello isn’t going to catch their attention. Try a couple of sentences and make sure that at least one of them is a question.
Try to read the person’s profile and incorporate something from it into the message. Ask a question about something or point out common interests. You can also try connecting with something that you see in the picture.
Second messages and any ones of those after that still need some time. You just don’t need to spend as much time as with the first message.
Don’t Be Creepy
One of the biggest things that turns away other users on dating sites is being creepy. Make sure that your profile, messages, and more are all free from anything that could be misconstrued. Don’t be afraid to apologize if you say the wrong thing.
Take care because pictures can also be creepy, not just your words. There are many more things that will turn people away than will attract them to you.
A lot goes into starting a good no strings attached relationship. Many of them start on dating websites but using these tips will make it much easier to find a good relationship. It will also help to speed up the process. Take a look at our other blog posts that talk about NSA relationships, you can have many of your questions answered. Don’t be afraid to also ask questions in the comments section below.