Let’s talk about masturbation! How do you do it? What do you like?
Most guys will sooner or later get into a routine and stick to it.
But why? There are so many cool ways to masturbate and so many techniques that will give you a different experience each time.
If self-love has pretty much become mechanical, you’ll benefit from the following tips and ideas that can make the experience better and more intense.
Give Your Perineum Some Love
The perineum is the area between the penis and the anus. How often do you stimulate it during masturbation? If the answer is never, you’re missing out on a huge opportunity to give yourself more powerful orgasms than ever before.
There’s a simple reason why – the perineum allows for prostate stimulation, especially if you use a good vibrating toy there. Adding a bit of prostate stimulation to your usual masturbation routine will give you experiences like no other. It’s a promise and most guys who have tried the technique are already 100 percent addicted to it.
Edging Is a Must
Edging is the technique you should try if you would like to enjoy pleasure for a prolonged period of time while also culminating in a more powerful orgasm.
The term edging refers to something very simple that’s inferred by the name. You bring yourself to the edge of orgasm, after which you stop. Once you’ve calmed down, you start the process all over again and repeat it a couple of times.
Edging is also called the stop and start method and it can also work wonderfully well during sex.
You can repeat the process three, four or more times. Not only will this feel extra good, you’ll also be working on your endurance this way. Your girlfriend or wife will definitely enjoy the prospects of that.
Try Some Temperature Play
Friction is the thing that’s needed to get off and every guy over the age of 13 knows that.
Temperature play, however, can add a new dimension to the experience.
The term refers to using heating and cooling to get something new out of sex or masturbation.
You can use ice (get an ice pack in your hands before masturbating) or cooling/heating lubricants that will recreate the effect of heat and cold. You can also use glass toys. These can be heated up or cooled down for a bit of stimulation. These toys can be used to massage just about every body part.
Keep in mind, however, you should keep the temperature within reasonable and comfortable limits. Going too hot or too cold isn’t safe and should be avoided.
Fleshlights and Sleeves
What have you been doing if you’ve never tried a pocket pussy or another kind of sleeve till now? There are even cool pornstar strokers that have been fashioned after your favorite adult actress.
The fleshlights and other kinds of sleeves are created to replicate the feel of actual sexual penetration. You can find products on the market that will give you the sensation of vaginal, anal or oral sex (different tightness, different textures, etc.).
The quality of the sleeve is very important for a realistic effect.
Take some time to acquaint yourself with brands and different makers. You can also compare the internal textures of sleeves (they are usually featured on a presentational illustration). The internal ridges and bumps are the ones that will actually result in pleasure when you get inside the toy.
When using such toys, a simple rule applies – get enough lube. Also, always clean the fleshlight thoroughly after the use. Don’t let it dry with lube and bodily fluids inside because it will harbor bacteria and potentially get ruined.
Experiment with Strokes
Over the years, you’ve probably worked out the rhythm and type of stroke you like the most. Chances are that you don’t even think about it when getting started.
Trying a few new strokes, however, can boost the fun factor.
Up and down is the typical way to go for most guys. Twisting strokes starting at the base of the penis, however, can lead to deeper and more electric sensations. Other possibilities to test out include long and smooth strokes, slightly tugging on the head while masturbating with the other hand and trying an O-ring grip at the base of the penis to keep blood inside.
There are dozens of things you can try with one or both hands. Just because you know what you like and what feels good doesn’t mean you should always be doing that one thing.
Anal play is something that many guys still avoid due to prejudices.
It’s 2020, people! The time has come to bring masturbation up a notch.
Here’s what you can do if you are hesitant about anal play – try a perineum massage. The prostate stimulation would feel good but it would be much more intense if you went for anal play.
The sex toy market features a whole range of prostate massagers. Some of them are tiny, others are a bit larger. You can easily find an item that you don’t feel intimidated by. Once your confidence grows, other prostate massagers will await you.
Stop Watching Porn
Porn is the go-to type of stimulation for most guys.
Unfortunately, porn can be so extreme that it may desensitize you to other types of erotic stimuli.
If you usually masturbate to porn, try switching things up a bit by staying away from your phone or computer.
There are so many other erotic materials you can count on for some arousal.
Watching your partner’s naked body while masturbating is one idea. In fact, you can have a session in which the two of you masturbate while watching each other. It will be hot and it will definitely bring you closer together.
You can also get all of the stimulation that you need from inside your head. Just think of a fantasy, a sexual scenario that really turns you on. The human imagination is vivid enough to get you to the degree of arousal required to get the job done.
There’s More to Your Body Than Just a Penis
How often do you touch other body parts when masturbating?
Obviously, when you have just five minutes to spare, you’re going to go right for the action.
If you are going to enjoy yourself for a longer period of time, look beyond the penis.
Touching your tummy, your nipples and your inner thighs can feel really good. Experiment with erogenous zones – it’s not true that just women have lots of those. The more you familiarize yourself with your hot spots, the easier it will become to build arousal.
So that’s it – good masturbation is all about keeping an open mind and trying new stuff. You can always discontinue the stuff that doesn’t really work for you. By experimenting, however, you will eventually discover lots of fun new things to do by yourself or even with a partner.