There is nothing wrong with fitting in with the crowd. But, if your personality is not that way inclined, you want to stand out in the crowd. You want to be noticed and you want people to think, who is that? It might be for the benefit of the opposite sex, or it might be because you feel more comfortable that way. Whatever your agenda, here are a few ways to get noticed if you are struggling for inspiration.
Have Good Posture
It is remarkable how much difference good posture can make. Not just to your body either, but to your confidence and self-esteem. Good posture gives off an aura of confidence and self-assurance that is extraordinarily attractive. Even members of the same sex will look at you with envy! Plus, when you stand up straight you make the most of your height. There is no better way to stand out than to be taller than everyone else in the room!
Dress For The Role
Don’t be afraid to take risks if that is what you want. Everyone shops at the same retailers today, and, as a result, everyone wears the same clothes. Or a version of the same clothes at least. Take the opportunity to recognise that your apparel is the perfect chance to look the part. Go for bold, bright colours for maximum effect. You don’t have to change your style completely, just go for something a bit quirkier.
Accessories are the perfect way to complete the look. All it takes is a watch with a big face or a couple of wristbands that give off a chilled out vibe. Apart from hippies, how many of your friends have beads wrapped around their arms? Or, the ultimate accessory is a tattoo. Tattoos immediately demand attention and are a great way to steal the limelight from everyone else. If you don’t feel ready for a permanent mark on your skin, custom, temporary tattoos are an alternative that are worth your attention.
Approach People And Be Approachable
It is not all about people coming to you because we’re not all blessed to be that good looking! It doesn’t mean that no one is taking notice; it just means they are waiting for you to make a move. Have the confidence to approach people and start a conversation. Even if you were not on their mind to begin with, you would be after. It is a great way to make a lasting impression.
Believe In Yourself
You’ll never stand out if you are a shrinking violet. People won’t be able to tell you from the wallpaper! You don’t need an explanation to stand out because believing in yourself is all about feeling good. If you get this right, everything will fall into place.
So, stand tall, look good and be friendly and confident. Before you know it you will be that person that everyone can’t wait to meet. Even if you aren’t that person, you will feel ten times better in your skin, which is well worth the effort.