When you are in a serious relationship with the woman of your dreams, the last thing you want to find out is that she has been cheating on you with another man. However, this does happen to many men and it can have a devastating effect on their lives. Of course, most girlfriends don’t readily admit to this and many will only give in if they are caught out. So, how can you work out whether your girlfriend is cheating on you?
Well, if you have suspicions that she is cheating for whatever reason, you should go with your gut instinct and try to find out more. For instance, she may be sneaking off all the time to make calls and you have no idea who to. Perhaps she is receiving lots of calls and you don’t know who they are from. Something as simple as a reverse phone lookup will enable you to identify the caller and unravel the mystery.
Other signs that she may be cheating
Of course, there are other signs that you should look out for if you suspect that your girlfriend is cheating on you. One thing you should never do, however, is accuse her unless you have evidence, as it may just be paranoia as opposed to her cheating – and you will end up in the dog house or worse. Some of the signs that could indicate that she is cheating include:
Suddenly dressing up for work: If your girlfriend has always been quite casual in the past when it comes to dressing up for work, look out for changes. She may start wearing more makeup, doing her hair differently, dressing in sexier clothes, and wearing lots of fragrance. If you suspect she is cheating, this could be a sign that it is someone from work that she is seeing.
Constant texts and Facebook conversations: Look out for changes in the use of her mobile phone. You may find that she is texting or receiving texts far more often than usual or you may catch her using Facebook a lot more than she used to. This could also indicate that she is communicating with another man if she never used to text or use Facebook that much before.
Going out more often: If your girlfriend is seeing someone else, she will probably start going out far more often than she used to – and she will be dressed up to the nines in most cases. Look out for any major changes in her social life. For instance, maybe you used to go out as a couple but now she always wants to be out with her friends – or so she says. If this is the case, it may be someone else she is meeting up with rather than her friends.
Of course, there are other signs that could indicate that she is cheating such as losing interest in intimacy with you and being very distant. If you notice any of these signs, you need to do some investigating to find out whether she is actually cheating on you.