Romantic Escapes — The Art of the Weekend Getaway

Romantic getaways can make some men feel queasy. They make fun of the idea, saying it’s one of those things that a man just has to do to get brownie points. But, really, planning a romantic weekend or few days away shouldn’t be something just done for brownie points.

If it is, you’re my nightmare. After all, it’s a great way to relax or explore an entirely new place and bedroom. That isn’t all bad!

Why Go On a Romantic Getaway?

Use a romantic getaway to reconnect. Because some people – I’m not saying you’re one of them – work all the time and some of them work from home. That can be challenging.

When I go to sleep, my mobile devices stay on. Sometimes, I forget to disable the sound. Imagine my special someone’s surprise when a movie soundtrack blasted on at 2:00 a.m. The Internet provider said they weren’t testing and the electric company representative said, “This honestly sounds like a poltergeist incident.”

That’s another reason to contemplate a getaway.

My advice, however, is that when on a getaway, don’t bring the computer, tablet, and four mobile devices. It’s fine to keep a mobile between for emergencies, but remember. The romantic getaway is to explore each other, not check emails, return calls, play games, or laugh at a friend’s funny picture. Do NOT do these things on a romantic getaway!

Other people just work all the time at an office. They also spend hours commuting to and from work. If this is your frame of reference, a romantic getaway is a great idea. Especially if you’ve mistakenly called your wife or girlfriend another name during sex.

Budget for the Romantic Getaway

Okay, this is a challenging topic on many levels. Budget discussions aren’t romantic. Unfortunately, though, the surprising credit card statement next month isn’t romantic… at all. It’s vital to discuss the budget when you’re splitting the bill.

huge credit card bill

If your relationship is relatively young, this can be a tricky conversation. It’s important to discuss equality early in any relationship. Then, even if you get married, both people agree that marriage is emotional-financial partnership.

Sorry, that was sort of a public service announcement.

Then, discuss how long you can both get away. Don’t over-extend time or money.

The Journey

Don’t forget travel time. If you’re driving, the journey is and should be as important as the destination. Bring along favorite music, pack a cooler of fresh water, healthy snacks, and toys if you like them.

food coolers

If hopping a plane is an absolute must, ask some questions about the carrier’s timely arrival record. Because hanging out at the airport for any part of the getaway is a bad idea.

Location, Location, Location

The selection of the right place for the getaway is really difficult for some people. For others, this is an easy discussion: I want a lovely place. The room must be gorgeous and clean. A weekend away in a countryside hotel can be as relaxing and wonderful as a trip to the Maldives.

countryside inn

Romance can happen anywhere, in a cute little cottage or a luxury hotel. With these thoughts in mind, some form of itinerary is useful, too. It shouldn’t be planned minute-to-minute because you’re on a romantic getaway. Identify a few out-of-the-way places you’d like to explore in the vicinity of the cottage or hotel.

Or you can try something completely new and exciting such as an adults only hotel with themed rooms where you can lock the door and have some romantic fun together in a totally different setting then you might otherwise be used to!

The Fine Print

The little things mean a lot on a romantic weekend. Take an unplanned walk down a beautiful path when you arrive at the romantic destination (if it’s not very late at night). Buy something special, e.g. your special someone’s favourite wine, to make a memorable toast. Don’t be afraid to be a little cheesy, too!

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Emma covers dating and relationships for Unfinished Man, bringing a witty woman's perspective to her writing. She empowers independent women to pursue fulfillment in life and love. Emma draws on her adventures in modern romance and passion for self-improvement to deliver relatable advice.

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