Whether you’re an actual successful sugar daddy or just a great guy who loves making his loved ones feel like a million bucks, it’s only natural for a man to want to spoil his lady once in a while. Not only is it super rewarding to watch her eyes light up with love and gratitude that she’s with you, but this is a great way to ensure she stays happy in her relationship.
And it really doesn’t take much to make a woman feel loved and cared for the way she longs for, either. Spoiling someone doesn’t necessarily have to mean over-the-top gestures or crazy expensive gifts (although there’s nothing wrong with wanting to do those things, too). There are many simple ways a loving man can make a huge difference for the woman he loves.
Be consistent with how you spoil her.
There’s really no middle ground when it comes to being a guy who spoils his sugar babies. You’re either someone who spoils his partner or you’re not, so once you decide to become the former, it’s essential to commit to it. It’s important to be able to anticipate someone’s behavior when you’re in a relationship, and your lady needs that as much as anyone.
Commit to doing simple little tasks on a regular basis that you know make your lady feel loved. For example, if you know she loves a particular hard-to-find varietal of wine, surprise her now and then with a bottle out of the blue. Plan little outings for the two of you to enjoy together. Treat her to a foot rub or a bubble bath when she’s had a hard day. Every little gesture matters.
Don’t ask, just do.
Even though nearly everyone likes to be spoiled by their partner and secretly longs for it, nobody wants to have to ask for it. In fact, that’s one thing most women have in common – wishing their partners would take the initiative a little more often without having to be prompted, hinted to, or asked.
So take the lead when it comes to spoiling your lady. If you see something needs to be done, paid for, or arranged, take control of the situation and take care of it for her. If you see she wants or needs something specific and you can provide that for her, do so without her having to ask for it. Men who take it upon themselves to help out without waiting to be asked are sexy and worth their weight in gold.
Empathize with her.
If your sugar baby is like most women, she’s amazingly warm and empathetic. She’s probably also very used to showering the men in her life with love and affection while getting very little of that back for herself. Even the most caring, selfless woman will get tired of that after a while and want to move on.
And since every woman longs for someone to show her the same empathy she shows others, she’ll positively melt if you give her that. Be the kind of guy who’s attentive and really gets to know the special lady in his life. Really listen to her when she talks, and pay close attention to what she says. If you listen, you’ll see that there are many ways you can easily make her life easier or better just by applying a little empathy.
Show her that you think about her.
Women spend a lot of time thinking about their partners when they’re not around. They wonder how their days are going. They think about how to make their sugar daddies happy. Many also constantly show their guys in both big and small ways that they’re missed, considered, and loved. And they really enjoy seeing proof that their sugar daddies think about them, too.
So, factor your lady into your thoughts, and look for little ways to show her that you have. Did you notice that she was almost out of something specific the last time you hung out at her house? Pick up some more and bring it with you the next time you go to see her. Text her or call now and then just to say you miss her and are thinking about her. It will mean so much.
And most importantly of all, make sure you’re having fun spoiling your lady. Spoiling someone and making them feel like they’re made of gold isn’t meant to be a chore. It’s not about turning yourself into someone’s body servant or giving until it hurts, either.
It’s about showing someone how absolutely special they are to you and taking pleasure in making sure your relationship is as happy and harmonious as possible. So why not dive right in and start today? You just might wind up changing both of your lives for the better.