If you’ve been searching for the right sugar baby to spend your life with for a while now, then you don’t need to be told how rare the truly special ones are. After all, a decent relationship that keeps loneliness at bay is one thing, but a connection with the potential to become an incredible life partnership is another matter entirely.
So if you think you’ve finally met someone you could see yourself with for the long haul, you naturally want to do everything right. Part of that means ensuring she knows you’re 100 percent serious about her. Here’s how to do it right.
Tell her how you feel.
Although it’s true that actions speak louder than words, words are still a pretty good place to start when it comes to making sure a special lady knows how loved and cherished, she is. So many women have been through more than their share of connections with men who rarely to never talked about their feelings, so some frank communication may mean more to her than you think.
Don’t worry. You don’t have to be fancy about it. Just tell her in no uncertain terms how you feel about her. Let her know what you love most about her, how she’s changed your life for the better, and how excited knowing her makes you for the future.
Spoil her rotten.
Whether you’re a bona fide sugar daddy or just like to pretend you are when you’re around your lady, a little spoiling will get you very far with nearly every woman. So many women are used to moving mountains for other people but rarely enjoy the same treatment in return.
You don’t necessarily have to break the bank to make your lady feel special, so there’s no need to plan a whirlwind trip around the world for two unless you really want to. But do buy her a little something special she’s had her eye on so she knows you pay attention or plan a really incredible date that takes things just far enough over the top to make an impression.
Close any distance gaps.
Many relationships start out as long-distance connections, especially with online sugar dating becoming increasingly prevalent. And while that might be fine for a more casual connection that may or may not have a future, you’ll want to make plans to close the distance gap if you’ve met someone you think you could be serious about.
You can definitely start by making it a point to spend time with your lady in person a lot more often, but don’t stop there. Consider whether this might not be the time to talk about relocating or – depending on what stage you’ve reached in your relationship – moving in together. Serious relationships call for the type of deep connection that thrives best when you’re near one another.
Let her share her interests with you.
While it’s one thing for casual daters to have their own separate lives when they’re away from one another, things are different for people who are serious about each other. A man who’s serious about a woman goes out of his way to take an interest in the things she loves, so it’s time to spend a little time in her world and learn to love what makes her tick.
Learn more about what she does for a living or, if she’s still in school, bone up a bit on her major or other areas of special interest. Ask her to spend a day showing you the ins and outs of one of her pet hobbies. Taking an interest in someone’s most loved activities and pastimes is essential if you want them to know you’re serious about them.
Let her into your world, as well.
Of course, it’s just as important to return the favor. Make sure you go the extra mile to show your special lady she’s welcome in your world, too. Let her in on the things that are most important to you. Satisfy her curiosity if she asks you questions about what you do for a living or your dreams for your future.
And if you haven’t already, introduce your lady to the people closest to you – your friends, your siblings, and – if they’re still living – your parents. Nothing makes a woman feel loved and special like showing her in this way that she shares the same level of importance with these key individuals.
Of course, these are just a few of the many ways a man can show the woman he loves that he’s serious about building a future with her, but they’re a great place to start. Just keep things honest, heartfelt, and real, however you choose to show her she matters.