You should always do your research when choosing an escort. Most of this information can be found online at a escorts’ business page, be it a brothel website, or private escort service.
You’ve read through her profile, looked through her gallery, and you think she might be the one you want. Excellent. But how do you get started?
If you’re a first-time escort user, the idea of an escort can be thrilling, and scary. Like all relationships, there are rules. First and foremost, be respectful.
An escort likes to know that you are genuinely taking an interest in her as a person, her boundaries, likes and dislikes, instead of only her appearance. So firstly, you must pay attention to her preferred method of contact. If she is an email lady, email her. Phone, call her. Text, text her. Simple. Don’t go for the method that is most convenient for you. That, in itself, will show her that you do not care for her preferences. You may not think this is a big deal, but chances are, she’s been doing this for a while. She’s been around the block. She has the right to read into everything you do. She is providing you an intimate relationship that you are searching for. The least you can do is accept her requests.
Don’t:
Hey girl, I saw your pics on your website. You’re really hot. I would like to hookup. How can we get this started?
Do not refer to your escort as any pet name. Baby, sexy, gorgeous, beautiful, girl, baby girl, or any of that is best left alone, especially at first contact. Now, she may be all of those things, but those names have an immature connotation to them. You can say she’s gorgeous or beautiful. You can complement her, but don’t address her as if it’s her name. Address her by her name. Don’t tell her she’s hot, don’t tell her what she does to your body, etc. She doesn’t need to know that. Clearly, her profile is doing something for you, otherwise, you would not have contacted her.
Do:
Good evening Sarah. I have been reading over your services on your website and I think that you could be a good fit for what I am looking for. You are stunning and I’m interested to learn more about you. Please tell me what you need from me. I look forward to hearing from you and thank you for your time.
Always start with a respectful greeting. Let her know that you have gone over her profile. This lets her know that you are aware of her rates and services, which you should be after looking at her profile. These things do not need to be mentioned, since she will understand that you have already done your research. Use adult language, which means, professional writing. You may not be an English major, and that is fine, but each of us have our own innate knowledge of formal and informal writing. Tell her that you anticipate her response, which is to show that you are eager to get to know her more. Lastly, thank her for reading your proposal over. This just adds respect to your writing. If you must compliment, make sure you do so in a tasteful manner.
Another helpful hint is to not ask her about her services. If you have done the proper research, you should already know what she has to offer. Do not ask her for a service she does not provide. Her services are her limitations and boundaries. Respect them. This should go hand in hand with asking about her rates.
Don’t:
Do not ask for a “first-time customer discount”. This is incredibly rude. Leave the money behind and initiate conversation professionally. This will speak wonders on your initial contact and the comfort of your escort.
Additionally, should the relationship not work out, and you search for a different escort, the way you’ve addressed your last escort, will probably carry over to the next, if you’re using a brothel. These women spend time together, sharing experiences, both good and bad. Your new escort is likely to ask her fellow co-workers who have had time with you, on their opinion of you. Make sure your past escort has nothing but good things to say about you.
