The idea of a threesome appeals to many. They are arguably every man’s dream and have mass appeal to a lot of women. Everyone wants to spice up their sex life and keep it feeling fresh even if you have been together a long time. Increasingly, women want to try women, so a threesome seems to be the perfect choice and solution. The man can live the dream while the woman gets to try a lesbian fantasy.
Sadly, it isn’t as easy as that. Jealousy will rear its ugly head. Suspicion will become prevalent, and this can lead to all kinds of issues and possibly lead to the breakup of the relationship. Which, unless you’re in a particularly bad relationship is very sad.
The solution is to find a professional sex worker for your threesome fun. Let’s take a deep dive as to why.
1 Using a Pro Escort is Faster
Finding a willing volunteer for your threesome fun can be a little tricky. You have to find someone you both like and that someone has to like you both. You can use the online sphere to find this person, but this is a trial and error process that may stretch on for months. The process is made more complicated if you have particular sexual tastes that you want to satisfy. If this isn’t sounding particularly sexy or erotic to you, that is because it isn’t!
You may get lucky and find the right girl, or it can happen by chance, but this is rare. Like a Bigfoot sighting rare.
Given that you can choose a girl online and then you’re up and running is so easy, the idea of finding a threesome girl any other way simply doesn’t make any sense.
2 Jealousy!
Although we may like the idea of a threesome in our heads, the fact is you may become jealous when you see your girl loving what the girl is doing. You may suddenly feel insecure and want to go and sit in the corner and feel sorry for yourself. It sounds weird, but you may not feel adequate.
Obviously, this can work both ways. Your girl may suddenly decide this is a bad idea. This can lead to all kinds of issues later on. And it will go far beyond the silent treatment and can last for what feels like decades!
The issue is the wondering and agonising after the threesome is over. If she liked what the girl was doing so much, you can’t help but wonder if she is going to get in touch with the girl privately. And repeat the process without you. Is she going to start seeing girls regularly, which sounds great in our heads but not so good when you’re making excuses for her at family gatherings as to why you are there alone.
If she is affected by the ‘J’ word, she will be wondering the same things. And this can drive you nuts! And it is horrible.
This is negated by using a paid sex worker. She is there as it is her job not because she has desires on turning your lady into a lesbian, or to prise you out of your relationship. She arrives you all have fun she leaves. It is a clean, smooth process which avoids a lot of the jealousy issues.
3 Nothing Beats Experience
Nothing trumps experience in life, and this is so true of the sex trade. A professional escort is experienced in threesomes and as such, will be more patient with you both as a couple. She will guide you both to a certain degree and know when to let one or both of you have control. There will be nerves, and being a bit timid is understandable.
Having a non-sex worker as your threesome partner should you be able to find one may well be a different experience entirely. You might all be shy, and taking the lead might be difficult. She may not be up for the things you want to do, and it could all be a little bit disappointing.
Again, the pro-sex worker comes to the rescue as you will know exactly what she’s willing to do before she walks through the bedroom door. So enjoy!
4 No Emotional Connections
When relationships break up due to an affair, it is far worse if the person having an affair has an emotional connection to the ‘other’ girl or guy. This means that the affair was significant and not just a fling. This severely damages a relationship and often leads to the end.
A pro-sex worker although will be friendly and playful isn’t going to be falling in love anytime soon. Given that you’ve paid her to be there it is clear that the nature of the threesome for you and your girl is fun, and the nature of the threesome for the escort is transactional.
This can make you both feel better about the threesome, and the importance of this cannot be overstated.
Threesomes are fantastic, and the best way to have them to ensure your relationship is unaffected is to use a pro-sex worker.
