When certain issues arise in our sex lives (either solo or with a partner), it’s easy to feel as though we’re the only ones experiencing that problem. This is because for all of the focus on sex in our culture, we often don’t talk about how to make sex healthy and satisfying. For example, many people are embarrassed to discuss the need for proper lubrication during sex.
This is especially true for women. Poor lubrication can make getting aroused difficult and sex or masturbation uncomfortable and possibly painful. Ladies aren’t the only ones who could use a little lube to ease things along. From masturbation to vaginal or anal penetration, for guys, a personal lubricant can take sex from meh to mind-blowing.
Open Communication and Honesty
When engaging in sex with a partner, it’s important that both individuals feel comfortable talking openly about what they need to make intercourse comfortable and truly sexy.
For those who may feel self-conscious about introducing a lubricant into their sexual relationship, it may help to have a talk with your partner during a time when you aren’t having sex. Explain to them that it’s something that would make sex more comfortable for you. For women, keep in mind that the need for lubrication doesn’t indicate a lack of arousal or problem with the relationship; there are many reasons additional lube may be necessary. A truly secure and caring partner will want every sexual encounter to be exciting and fulfilling.
What Kind of Lube is Best?
There are as many different kinds of personal lubricant on the market as there are sexual preferences and fantasies. For the ladies, lubricants like Sliquid Organics Silk Hybrid were designed with the female body in mind. Infused with aloe and Vitamin E, it’s designed specifically for use on delicate and sensitive body parts. It has a luxurious and creamy consistency and is safe for use with condoms and sex toys.
Doc Johnson OptiMale Silicone-Based Personal Lubricant is perfect for the guys. This silicone-based lube stays active for longer than water-based lubricants. It’s latex-safe and comes in a flip-top tube that’s convenient for one-handed use. OptiMale doesn’t dissolve in water, so it’s a wonderful lube to use in a steamy shower or bath.
With all of the exciting selections that are available, introducing a lubricant into your sex life can do more than just make standard sex better…it can provide inspiration for a whole new world of experimentation.
