I’m your go to guy for dating and relationship advice; I’ve spent over 10 years experiencing and succeeding in the online dating scene. There’s no unfinished man who couldn’t benefit from a bit of an edge in the dating game, so keep an eye out for my posts if you feel like you could use some advice. I want to help you present yourself as the uniquely amazing person that you are, and to make you more efficient in your online dating process.
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Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the Founder of My Online Dating Consultant
Remember when you were in your 20s and it seemed liked everyone was single? The thought never crossed your mind to look down at a girl’s hand to see if she had a wedding ring. Everyone was available for drinks after work and the dating pool seemed endlessly deep. Flash forward to your 30s and things have changed and hopefully you have as well. Let’s take a quick look at what’s different and how to use your “advanced age” to your advantage. continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
As an online dating expert, I’m frequently bombarded in social settings with stories of either horror or enthusiasm for online dating. There seems to be no grey area. People either despise online dating or rejoice in how they met their spouse through it. Let’s finally clear up once and for all whether online dating is good or evil.
Don’t Hate the Game, Hate the Player
The first important point is that there is nothing inherently good or evil about online dating. It is simply a medium and not a miracle. Expecting continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
Online Dating is an imperfect science. Working with an expert will improve your efficiency and keep your dating capital high, but there’s no eliminating the swing and misses completely. However, you can ensure that those misses don’t build on themselves and create strikeouts.
Don’t Waste Time Examining What Went Wrong
No matter how great you are at managing your online dating process, there are going to be times when the connection you want just doesn’t happen. With a solid game plan and effective technique you can increase your probability of success, but you will never eliminate rejection completely from the practice. continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
Many of my clients struggle with dating multiple women at once and making it work for them. The days of dating one person at a time are relegated to our parent’s distant history and if you haven’t already, it’s time to adapt to the way dating works today. This process can be daunting, expensive and time consuming if you do it wrong; but doing it right will lead you to the best woman for you in a very natural way. Find out how to do it right. continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday at Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
Yeah, I know you guys hate being tossed into the friend box but it’s not the end of the world. If you stick to some clear rules of engagement you may just end up benefiting from a nice friendship with a girl (imagine that) and making it a positive gateway to your next date with someone new.
Don’t Fight It
If a girl tells you she just wants to be friends, whatever you do don’t fight it. Attempting to plead your case and convince her that there’s something more there is not going to work and frankly it’s beneath you. Once a girl has pegged you as a buddy, no words you say on the spot are going to make her magically think, “You know what? After hearing your pitch, I actually do think I want to have sex with you. That back alley looks inviting. Let’s go for it!” continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
How to approach that hot girl at the gym or at the market is the single most vexing obstacle that most men face. It is the true test of your mettle and this article will help break down what’s getting in your way and help you focus on a new goal that will make you more confident and smooth in a jiffy. continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
If you were to ignore all of the dating advice I’ve given you over the years and pick just one juicy nugget to heed, choose this one. True confidence is the secret ingredient to meeting the women you want and there’s no shortcut to getting there.
Forget the pick-up lines
I’ve read a number of my dating advice colleagues’ columns and tips from supposed dating experts who claim to give you the magic words that will continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
A classic episode of Seinfeld had Jerry’s floundering friend George realize that his life sucks, so every instinct which has lead him there must be completely wrong. He begins to do the opposite of what his gut tells him and enjoys a windfall of women and gets his dream job with the New York Yankees. There’s a lesson to be learned from Georgie boy’s approach that can be easily applied to dating. continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
You see it all the time. The ugly guy who looks like he could use a good shower with the super hot girl on his arm. Tired of just convincing yourself that he’s either got a huge penis or a huge trust fund? Ready to start really considering what he’s doing right that you’re doing wrong? continue reading →
Mike writes a recurring sarcastic and informative column every other Thursday in The Unfinished Man and is the CEO of My Online Dating Consultant
Ah, it is the time for reflection as the New Year arrives. What do we want to accomplish? What do we want to be? Who do we want to date? Consider the following as a wire frame for your 2012 dating resolutions.
Trust Your Gut
The warning signs are usually there when we meet a woman who’s not good for us. We usually see all the red flags but instead of trusting our gut, we figure things will just work themselves out or worse, that we’ll change the person to make it better. She is super sexy but she seems to have really low self esteem? continue reading →
