Archive of Jordan Harbinger

“A core principle of my own life, and upon which this company was founded, is that one should leave everything and everyone better than they were before we met. By bringing positivity and abundance to others, you can’t go wrong.” Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence, Interpersonal Dynamics and Social Engineering, helping private companies test the security of their communications systems and working with law enforcement agencies before he was even old enough to drive.Jordan has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe and the Middle East, and speaks several languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war-zones and been kidnapped -twice. He’ll tell you; the only reason he’s still alive and kicking is because of his ability to talk his way into (and out of), just about any type of situation. Here at The Art of Charm, Jordan shares that experience, and the system borne as a result, with students and clients.

Jordan has written 3 awesome article(s).


cheap first date locations

Sure, it’s okay to meet a woman at a bar or a club, but it’s a pretty awful place to bring her on a first date. You won’t get to know her any better and what’s worse, you’re going to be surrounded by drunk a-holes trying to swoop in on your thing. Still, showing her that you’re a grown up means planning something better than “getting together” or “hanging out.” That stuff is for boys, not men, and you want to be a man. So take her out on a date. It’s 2012 and the economy isn’t that great, but there are still a bunch of things you can do on any budget that will give you time to get to know one another while also keeping both of you entertained.

(Jordan Harbinger is a Wall Street lawyer turned Social Dynamics expert.  He is the co-founder of The Art of Charm, a dating and relationships coaching company based in Los Angeles and New York City.) continue reading →

cute girl texting

You’re probably tired of hearing about sexting — not least of all because you want in on some of the fun. Sexting on its own isn’t a terrible way to spend an evening, but you’re going to want to seal the deal with the real thing. Here are some tips to help make it happen.

Jordan Harbinger is a Wall Street lawyer turned Social Dynamics expert.  He is the co-founder of The Art of Charm, a dating and relationships coaching company based in Los Angeles and New York City.

Slow Burn

Don’t be the guy who sends a picture of his schlong right off the bat. We’re sure your dick is impressive and everything and she’ll eventually continue reading →

how to bribe a foreign cop

Jordan Harbinger is a Wall Street lawyer turned Social Dynamics expert.  He is the co-founder of The Art of Charm, a dating and relationships coaching company based in Los Angeles and New York City.

Today fellas, I’m going to teach you a skill that’s gotten me out of more sh!t than a chain-gang could shovel in a week.

That’s right. I’m going to teach you how to bribe the police, border patrol, customs & immigration or anyone else who just doesn’t seem to understand how important you are or how desperately you need to get the heck out of Asscrackistan in time for Thanksgiving. continue reading →